Reeve Chua Zong Hao
01/01/1986
Male
Singapore
Saturday, May 31, 2008
Results...My results were out on Friday. I got 2 'B's, 2 'B-'s and an 'A-'. That's my first 'A' in college, even though it's an 'A-'. Considering the fact that I studied only one or two days before each paper, those are good results in my opinion. My CAP is pulled up too. I'll do better next semester. I'll pull my CAP more the next time.
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Hanged @ 11:03 PM
Friday, May 30, 2008
New Tagboard...Someone mentioned that the tagboard's down so I got a new one. Leave messages, yeah?
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Hanged @ 1:57 PM
At long last, I found a temp job. No, it's not through job agents. I sought the help of about 4 job agents and till this day I still got nothing from them. I'm losing faith and them. In fact, I think they are a bunch of useless money-suckers.
I got the job through connections. The boss is my mum's friend. It's a welding company and I have free transport to work. I'll be an admin assistant. Pay's not bad. I'll be drawing a monthly pay but I've calculated the hourly pay. It's about $8 per hour.
I'm starting work on Monday. Finally, a job.
Ok, I'm going to go brush my teeth and wash up. We all know brushing is important, don't we?
Brushing is important...
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Hanged @ 11:47 AM
Thursday, May 29, 2008
Hole In My Wallet...There's a hole in my wallet. No, I don't mean I spent a lot of money on something. I'm as broke as can be. I mean there's a hole in my wallet, literally. The compartment where I store my coins broke due to me putting too many coins in. Time to get a new wallet.
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Hanged @ 4:26 PM
nice new layout
but you need to get rid of that faulty shoutbox
shit doesnt work
It doesn't? Works fine for me...
Played mahjong with a few friends yesterday. Played with Ying Kit and Derrick again, but because Seng Hwa was not free, I got Alex to play with us instead. It was fun, but Derrick was still very, very slow and very much clueless about where to get the tiles and stuff. Coupled with the fact that I did not sleep at all the previous day, I got a little agitated during the later part of the session.
Anyway, I started with a $5 deficit as I owed Ying Kit $5 and gave that amount to him in the form of my chips. In the end I had a $0.10 profit, which effectively means I won $5.10. Well, at least I cleared my debt.
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Hanged @ 10:33 AM
Tuesday, May 27, 2008
Relationships...Everyone has their own definition of things abstract. Honor, value, love, hate, existence, justice. I, for one, hear many whimsical definition of these from a particular someone. Her definition of love, of how a man should or should not treat a woman, of how a female should squeeze toothpaste out (from the middle?!?!) flood my everyday life. The validity, however, she never questions.
So here's my own take on what a relationship is. Call me gay if you want, I just want to make things clear.
A romantic relationship involves love at the beginning. Love is not an object you give to someone. It's a feeling you feel for someone. In fact, it's many feelings you feel for someone. By someone, I do mean one person only.
Love involves trust. Trusting a person, trusting what he/she says. If you love a person, you have to trust that person. Can we all agree that if there's no trust, there's no love? How can you love someone you don't trust? Life isn't a 007 movie.
Let's not go into the definition of love. So, a relationship involves love, but the raging feeling of wanting to be intimate with someone doesn't last forever. It lasts longer for certain individuals, shorter for others. When the feeling fades, does the relationship end? Maybe, that's why divorce rates are so high these days. But when divorce is not considered, what holds two people together?
I believe two things hold people together after explosive feeling of love fizzles. One is compatibility, the other is tolerance. What are they?
Compatibility is how close two people's interests and takes on life are. For example, the man likes to watch news on TV. So does the woman. In this aspect, they are compatible. Conflicts are reduced in this aspect of life. But if the man likes cats and the woman likes dogs, then they are not compatible in this aspect. It's even worse if the man likes cats and the woman hates them.
The more compatible two people are, the more their interests complement one another, the longer they stick together. Some people call a compatible other a soulmate.
What is tolerance then? Tolerance comes into play when incompatibility is taken a step further. Let's use the example above. The man likes cats but the woman hates them. The man, however, still got a cat into the house. The woman, at first, will tolerate the presence of the cat. That is the tolerance I'm talking about. Tolerance, however, wears thin with time. How long they can bear to be together depends on the woman's tolerance towards the cat and the man's tolerance towards the woman's hatred for the cat. Some can stand it longer, even for life, some cannot stand it for a week.
In general, man, being more agressive, tend to have lower tolerance.
When tolerance reaches the end of the road, sacrifices have to be made. In the case above, either the cat goes or the woman goes. This may sound like a trivial example, but if you take the same scenario and put it in other aspects of life, the impact is magnified. When the choice is between your lifestyle and your other half, or your career and your other half, or your freedom and your other half, this will not seem like a laughing matter anymore.
So this is my definition of a relationship. You may not agree, but I'm holding on to this and anyone close to me will have to follow this definition, just like how I follow another person's whimsical, self-centred definitions everyday.
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Hanged @ 1:10 PM
Monday, May 26, 2008
You Are Fucked-Up...This is immensely frustrating. How can someone who used to make out with another guy behind her boyfriend's back, who still calls the guy years after to talk about 'old times', have the fucking cheek to point her finger at me and malign me of infidelity?
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Hanged @ 10:23 PM
A blog may be your freedom to express your thoughts but do consider people's feelings when you do that. Sometimes I wonder isn't a personal blog just self-centered basically? It is really easy to see others' faults magnified and yourself slate clean.
It's early in the morning and it's pouring outside. I guess it'll be damn humid later in the afternoon.
I'll get the papers after the rain stop to look for jobs. Still jobless and damn broke now. After that I'll do some workout, either at the gym or with the free weights I have at home. Time to get back in shape.
I will read a book on starting up a business later. It will help with the cafe Angie and I had in mind. Will need to seek funds from my school's entrepreneurship groups to go about with it.
I'll start a Facebook account sometime this week. That will facilitate the uploading of photos and, of course, the stupid videos of Jin Han taken so many donkey years ago.
Now, for the rain to stop...
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Hanged @ 8:39 AM
Sunday, May 25, 2008
Lazy No More...Finally, my blog has been revamped and online. I haven't wrote a thing for 2 whole months. That's the longest I've gone without writing.
Life's generally good these days. Finished my exams and I'm currently waiting for my results. Don't think I'll do well but I just hope I don't do too badly.
I'm currently looking for a holiday job but I haven't been able to find anything. I have been trying. I have got 4 job agents looking for jobs for me and I'm still jobless. Damn, they sure are good-for-nothings.
Went out with Leong recently and I discovered that Leong and Joyce have the same couple rings as Angie and I. What a freaking coincidence. Leong and I look like homosexual men when we wear the rings together. Hell...
I've been discussing with Angie about opening a cafe just now. Getting really psyched up about it. I think it will work and I may go ahead with it. My business 'partner' may have walked out on me the last time, but this time it's Angie and I know she'll support me all the way, so I determined on this cafe thing.
I'm gonna go take a shower now. Till next time.
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Hanged @ 9:29 PM
Yes dearie, lets make this dream become reality.
Luv JuJu
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